Sunday, January 5, 2014
Caring for someone does not always mean the 'norm'.
Let's hear it for the Memphis Grizzlies who recently drafted its newest & youngest member who was given his own mock pressconference, checked out the locker room, & was part of a team photo. Make A Wish granted 8 year old Charvis Brewer his wish of being part of the team. Charvis has cerebral palsy and has his mom and aid to help with his daily needs. The only thing he doesn't need help with is his overwhelming support of the Grizzlies. The surprise 'draft' came during a family brunch in Memphis when the Grizzlies announcer rushed into the dining room and announced that there was a supplemental draft and Charvis was chosen! As the story goes: "Mike Conley, a guard for the Grizzlies and a favorite player of Charvis’, joined the festivities with a jersey made for the team’s newest member. A limousine then ferried the Brewers to the basketball arena where the players awaited Charvis’ arrival. The whirlwind included eating lunch with the team, watching practice, visiting the weight room and quizzing the players about basketball. Miranda Harbor, director of community outreach for Make-A-Wish Mid-South, said Charvis was thrilled and quickly took his place on the team, even offering suggestions on player positions and strategies." Everyone involved was thrilled. The team just as quickly embraced Charvis. “He’s a great kid that comes from a great family and is so full of life,” Grizzlies CEO Jason Levien said in a statement to TODAY.com. “We are a bigger fan of his than he is of ours.” Charvis and family will be attending a game, watching from a box seat but will be able to give high-fives to the players as they run out onto the court. For the full story, read here. For more good feeling stories, read on and on....
I received a letter from our healthcare provider offering a special service through Social Security. We are in the process of filing for SSI...
(picture from Yahoo News ) A hospital in New York has started training retirees to help support caregivers whose family member is hospitali...
Adult services start - finally! It's scary for mom!!! Things I did to make it better for him (and me hopefully).The first Weekday Mixer was a great success! We had 100 blogs linked up and numerous social media link-ups! We hope that you all had the opp...
(picture from ROS site) The ROS Play Therapy System now has Elvis on its variety of games designed for those disabled with Alzheimer's, ...
As Advent starts, our church parishoners carry on a 'tradition' if you will (we have been doing this for about 4 - 5 years), of hono...
(pictures from Today.com) Wesley Piercy wanted to take his son's current condition and turn it into a positive experience. Instead of...
I saw these in an email from Caring.com . It was an article about whether caregivers liked these elastic shoelaces, called Locklaces . I h...
My joining a Google+ community, Special Needs Clothing - Dress with Ease started me thinking about how it sometimes was hard to find mom so...
(picture from the SSA website) I received a phone call from the Social Security Administration today. The person wanted to see if Willie w...
The post for the Mixer is now here .
4 Signs of Caregiving Stress Overload
ElderCarelink email posts 4 signs that should not be overlooked by you, the caregiver, or a close family member or friend. They report that even though the immediate caregiver may not be helping in direct care, the mind is never far from the needs of the older person, thinking about meals, falling, medications. Take the opinion of a family member or friend if they are telling you that you are stressed. Four signs: you skip your own physicals; you isolate yourself from others; you eat and/or drink too much for good health; you are short tempered with the elder, your spouse or your children. If any or all of these sound familiar, take a break no matter how short in order to recharge. For more information on caregiver stress see ElderCarelink
You can check out my ranting and stream of consciousness writing about looking at adult service providers with Will.
A Caregiver's Poem
I was looking through a 'Caregiver's Blog: Senior Care Support' and came across a poem that was shared by a writer, Dana, from the blog. The poem was written by Becky Netherland and Dana's grandmother shared it with her. I thought it was great and there is not much to say about it - just read!!! Enjoy!!
(picture from Caregivers Blog)
I’ve traveled paths you’ve yet to walk
Learned lessons old and new
And now this wisdom of my life
I’m blessed to share with you
Let kindness spread like sunshine
Embrace those who are sad
Respect their dignity, give them joy
And leave them feeling glad
Forgive those who might hurt you
And though you have your pride
Listen closely to their viewpoint
Try to see the other side
Walk softly when you’re angry
Try not to take offense
Invoke your sense of humor
Laughter’s power is immense!
Express what you are feeling
Your beliefs you should uphold
Don’t shy away from what is right
Be courageous and be bold
Keep hope right in your pocket
It will guide you day by day
Take it out when it is needed
When it’s near, you’ll find a way
Remember friends and family
Of which you are a precious part
Love deeply and love truly
Give freely from your heart
The world is far from perfect
There’s conflict and there’s strife
But you still can make a difference
By how you live your life
And so I’m very blessed to know
The wonders you will do
Because you are my granddaughter
And I believe in you.
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